Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hello,
I know my story isn't as intense as other people's but my heart is hurting so bad that it doesn't seem that way. My name is Sarah and I am in my second year of college. My ex and I have been on the rocks since Aug and he finally broke up with me and I am pretty certain it's for good this time. It hurts so bad and it's hard to keep my head up. For a while, I couldn't get out of bed, started skipping classes, and even took a week off of swimming from my swim team. I have been calling friends left and right for support and even meet with my university's counselor (but it doesn't help that she's only there on thursdays). Nothing seems to ease the pain. I am having trouble eating and I am in soooo much pain. Any type of support would be much appreciated.
I know my story isn't as intense as other people's but my heart is hurting so bad that it doesn't seem that way. My name is Sarah and I am in my second year of college. My ex and I have been on the rocks since Aug and he finally broke up with me and I am pretty certain it's for good this time. It hurts so bad and it's hard to keep my head up. For a while, I couldn't get out of bed, started skipping classes, and even took a week off of swimming from my swim team. I have been calling friends left and right for support and even meet with my university's counselor (but it doesn't help that she's only there on thursdays). Nothing seems to ease the pain. I am having trouble eating and I am in soooo much pain. Any type of support would be much appreciated.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Take good care of yourself. You have a bright future ahead. Try to hang in there.
I know I'm placing emphasis on your age but at 19 I wish I knew then what I know now.
In the end he's just a boy.
Know that we are all here for you. Many of us at various stages and in similar situations.
Yes, and most of us heart-broken, sick, confused and feel alone.
This is a place where you can talk freely, ask questions, listen...join in or sit back and cry and laugh and get virtual hugs ((((HUGS))))), with no obligation to return the hugs either.
Try and get some rest, eat, take care of that swimmer's body so you don't get sick.
Most of us initially lose a lot of weight...and that is not healthy.. so take care of yourself...and please..yes, ask for help.
See if there is additional counselling out there in your community.
be well (((((HUGS)))) holding you tight.