I need help. I just rec'd my seperation papers in the mail and my ex wants 50% of the kids. We have been seperated for a while but still trying to make things work until 3 days before x-mas he told me he was not in this and wanted to be single. He has taken the kids for a week at a time but often ask me to keep them during his week to help him out (job demanding) I have since we were working this out. but now I wonder can he take care of them 50% of the time he bitches about doing homework with our son says he is so behind at work he may lose his job. So I feel he only wants the kidsso he won't have to pay child support ( I offered to decline support if I can have the kids most of the time) I am good at giving advice to others except myself. Am I being so selfish because I don't want to miss 50% of my kids life or should I make him stay up to what he want to commit to. I hope this makes sense. I am so confused I don't want to denied him the kids I just feel I am losing 1/2 of your life
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