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MY H as of Sunday says still wants the divorce and not work on the marriage. As you all know I am having a hard time letting go and I am still trying to get him back.
I asked him on Sunday if he would be willing to go out to dinner or a movie sometime and he said
"Yes, I'd be willing to do that".
He knows that I want nothing more than to work this out.
So why would he agree to go out and do stuff with me??
Is he trying to be friends? Pity? Or is there a possibility that somewhere he is having doubts? (which is what I am thinking).
Any insight would be appreciated.
I asked him on Sunday if he would be willing to go out to dinner or a movie sometime and he said
"Yes, I'd be willing to do that".
He knows that I want nothing more than to work this out.
So why would he agree to go out and do stuff with me??
Is he trying to be friends? Pity? Or is there a possibility that somewhere he is having doubts? (which is what I am thinking).
Any insight would be appreciated.
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I can't say what he is thinking, but know that I just wanted to try and be friends with stbx and felt guilty for saying no to him. Just be careful and possibly wait for him to be the one to ask.
Don't read into it too much, and my other advice to you is to stop relying on him. Stop turning to him. You need to find a new outlet. New Friends.
Be honest, tell him that you want to remain friends with the hope of reconciliation and see if he still agrees.
Does he call YOU? Email you? txt you out of the blue, or only in response to your efforts at communication?
Love you all. Thank you.