
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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My husband and I have not spoken for 3 weeks. I've been in contact with his mom, just to make sure he is doing ok and what he is supposed to so he can make payments to me. I think his mom is really having a hard time accepting what her son has done and what an ass he is being. I've been working hard to pick up the pieces and keep myself sane. She sent me an email today about a marriage retreat weekend in January. Now hear comes the question. It is 3,000 miles away, we would have to fly together, stay together and be together for that entire time. Even if he would be willing to go, which he probably won't, should I go. I don't know anymore. I don't know if I want to put myself out there, just to get hurt again, but at the same time I would like to say I've done all I can to try and save it. But I'm not sure I want to save it anymore. Any opinions?
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