DON"T CALL!!! if you do ytou will have a set back. Stay focused. If you have to put a note on the phone that says dont call

BReese,


SMMMMMMMMMMMMACK SMACK SMACK dude don't call her you know how its gunna go alreay! ya know. be the bigger person...

I know how you are feeling. I am having a weak moment myself right now. I miss him so much right now. But be strong and we can weather this storm together.

Oh man do I know how hard it is!!!! I have issues myself with wanting to give my hubby a call a lot, but Ive come to realize he needs his space, and your wife needs it too. When we're in a situation like this, its the best thing to do.

Don't call!!!!!!!!
I have called for a months straight. It has NOT helped me get him back. trust me. Leave her alone. Don't call, please.

Calling her will not help, trust me I know.

Stay here and talk to us instead.

You can call. But you aren't allowed to say anything to make yourself look good or feel good. Only to see how everyone is and let them know you are there for them. It can't be about you.

Make it short and do not let it last longer than 5 minutes. You need to be somewhere else after that. Use the call as an exercise in how to "do it right".

Not calling is often just another form of active aggression. So if you really feel like it, call. Just to say hi.

I don't think you should call.

This may sound strange, but stop and think about yourself. It doesn't hurt to be a little selfish. You can become so focused on your significant other that it is easy to forget about yourself. It helps with more issues than just a phone call!!!

I have to agree...Don't call...it will only give her the upper hand. She needs to know that you would be fine without her...that's the only way she will appreciate you.

okay ill join in with everybody else, please dont call!!! only if you really have to....which is probably hard, fact being you have kids together but dont use that as an excuse to pick up the phone....hang in there hun! it will all make you stronger in the long run :)

I'm thinking it would be best if you didn't call. Maybe you need to have a friend you can call instead anytime you are wanting to call her. Just a thought...and we are always here for you!

If you call, you're giving her the power. Do you want to do that?

do not call it will do your self esteem little yo know good. I have been caring for kids for almost 6 months and she is living her life--there has been little else in my life but them and it has been hard but calling will do U no good

i feel you....hang in there!