Well I am back for some more help. I was doing great with everything and bam another issue is really bothering me. Being rejected the first time was bad enough. But...... Having to be rejected again, and again, and again.... You get my point. I have tried dating but, the divorce is keeping me from having a relationship. I meet people and we have good conversation. I even meet people that has the same interest as me. When they find out that I am going thru a divorce they don't want anything to do with me. They just stop calling. Because she made the mistake, now I have to suffer the rest of my life. Hell I can't even make a friend. Maybe I have issues???? I don't want to live the rest of my life with the divorce coming back at me. I was going to wait until the divorce was final but, made a decision not too. People have to accept what is going on in my life for what it is. I can't stop living bc of a divorce not being final. I deserve to be happy just like her. Everyone has some type of bagage in their life. Divorce isn't the worst thing in life. Hell there are sites out there promoting it. Has anyone been here? Am I the only one facing this issue. I can help people with their own issues but, my own. This is sad!
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