I have hit another stage in this whole thing where I just don't feel the need to be chatty with my stbx anymore. There have been plenty of times that I was the one being nice by being cordial by saying good morning or just trying to be nice and start simple conversation since she didn't feel the need to do the same and now that I just don't feel the need to do it anymore because she just didn't appreciate me doing that and that I just am done, I don't feel the need to do it anymore. I just go in get my kids and leave. So she asked me the other day "You ok? you don't talk anymore." My response was "there is nothing left to say. Ive said all that I had to say." Now if she thinks she wants me to be friends with her, I just don't see the need to. So today my daughter tells me that she asked her why I wasn't talking to her anymore. I was annoyed that she asked my daughter. She needs to leave her out of it and ask me. So what I need to know is should I email her and tell her again what I said about not wanting to talk to her anymore and to just leave it at that or do I just leave it alone and hope that she doesnt pester my daughter about it anymore?
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