Need advice. My hubby told me he wanted to file for a divorce over the phone (never a face-to-face meeting), then tried to give me divorce papers as a surprise b-day present this year,etc.. Now he sends me abusive emails placing on the blame on me, and thinking he's absolutely right, etc. Absolutely no remorse whatsoever. I have not seen him for over 6 months... When I last saw him, sure we had our share of problems, but I had no clue about this bomb shell he would throw on me. I really want to sit down and talk with him and have a face-to-face meeting. I feel like he's a coward for breaking the news over the phone! But, he's so rude when I communicate with him. I want answers. Everytime I try to think of flying up to see him, I stop because there's legal paperwork involved already and the battle's in court. I think about all the hurtful things he's done. I think what if he calls the police on me while visiting him and makes up some stupid thing to prove himself in court? Any suggestions? I feel like he's also hurt
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