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Here is the e-mail I sent to my friend -- you know, the one that kind of dumped me after the breakup. What do you think? I hope I'm not setting myself up for another rejection.
Hi Julie.
I've been thinking about you a lot over the last few months, and realize how much our friendship meant to me. I think that's why I got so upset. I felt that by not calling or sending me an e-mail, that you were rejecting me. At that time, it was too much for me -- I already had been rejected by Ann, and I felt that two of the most important people in my life were BOTH rejecting me.
I don't know how you feel about me at this point ... or even how you felt about me BEFORE. But I just wanted to reach out, and see if you want to talk. I'll leave it up to you, I guess.
But like you said before, we have shared a lot, and at least to me, it was meaningful. I don't know what else to say. I hope you respond, and we can talk it all out.
Cindy
Hi Julie.
I've been thinking about you a lot over the last few months, and realize how much our friendship meant to me. I think that's why I got so upset. I felt that by not calling or sending me an e-mail, that you were rejecting me. At that time, it was too much for me -- I already had been rejected by Ann, and I felt that two of the most important people in my life were BOTH rejecting me.
I don't know how you feel about me at this point ... or even how you felt about me BEFORE. But I just wanted to reach out, and see if you want to talk. I'll leave it up to you, I guess.
But like you said before, we have shared a lot, and at least to me, it was meaningful. I don't know what else to say. I hope you respond, and we can talk it all out.
Cindy
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You know if she doesn't answer then she never really was a good friend anyway Cin.
Are you attracted to her? Could she be wondering that you might be coming on to her? Seriously, I know you mentioned friendship, but when I read it, it sounds a little more than friendship. Maybe it's because I'm a straight guy :) But I think you should have stated something along the lines of friendship only. Just my opinion. BTW, we really do have a great team. LOL
I think it was a nice letter. I have some very close girlfriends and understand how you feel. BCW3 (Shame on you)(: woman just have more intimate and closer relationships then most men. I hope she does respond and I know that it will hurt if she doesn't. But you are a nice person and it really would be her lose. Let me know how it goes. ((HUGS))