My husband has been gone for four months and I only get an occasional email from him, which most of the time are very negative and about money. We were married 33 years. He denied having an affair but moved in with his girlfriend the day after he left and purchased a motorcycle. I do not know her name, who she is, how he met her, but my two adult children go out with him and his girlfriend and do not communicate with me or have any contact with me, because he is helping them with money and they choose not be to around me. I live by myself and no one contacts me or calls me. I am alone. What should I do? Should I try to keep contacting my son and daughter to try to mend the relationship with them or do I just let them go. They do not respond to my calls or emails. I really felt that their father would return from his midlife crisis, but he has now done so many things, such as his own accounts, changing the address on his personal business and such, that I don't see him changing his mind. I am so hurt that he has torn apart my family and I have no part in my kids' life.
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