Ok my husband I am are trying to work things out. I wrote him and letter and we had a talk. I told him he needed to go to therapy and maybe medicine. He agreed and I gave him two weeks to start and come home or pack the rest of his stuff. He has not lived with me in 8 weeks. There is another women that he says is just a friend and that he talks to and texts. Mainly the text. Ok here is what I need advice on, I have slept with him and let him stay over a few times in the last 8 weeks. Tonight he said he wanted our daughter Friday and Saturday I asked if they were staying at his Aunt's house he said yes then he said maybe he would stay here. The last couple of times he has stayed I was the one to ask. When he asked I said yes now I wonder if I am doing the right thing. Should I call and tell him no that he can not come and stay. That if he wants to be here it has to be he is coming home for good.
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