Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I spoke with my wife this morning and told her that I could not live without her friendship, care and concern. I know that she was the one who essentially ended our relationship by cheating, but I had made many mistakes as well and I am fairly certain that she will not run to someone new. I think she will need a very long time to do something like that, so that leaves me some hope to simply take things as they come and build on our friendship. I hope things will progress well. But, anyways, I am feeling pretty sad and the obsessive thoughts are spinning in my head about how I do not want her to leave. I love my family and I pray to God she makes the decision for us in the long run. Thank you.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I will also pray for you, your marriage and your family!
One word of advice though, and please don't take it the wrong way. I would not tell her again that you cannot live without her friendship, care and concern. I have done the same, trust me, but, such statements can come across as desperate or needy and I think the chances of her possibly rethinking that are better if you come across as strong and independent. I know, easier said than done.
I know the feeling of not wanting someone to leave and wondering how you will make it without them. You will be strong and you will be ok no matter what happens. Trust me, if this crybaby here can do it so can you.
I do hope that things work out for you the way you want. Only time will tell. In the meantime take care of yourself and know that we are here to support you.
I hope you two can work on that friendship. Stay strong.