
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Sorry family of DS...I NEED you this morning. I am so unbelieveably depressed. I think this is my alltime low. Here it is 3:16 am and I can't sleep. Had to take off early from work yesterday. Stbx went to his sister's house and told her of our divorce. She told him that I was being vindictive in settlement. (all I'm asking is for 1/2 of what I am entitled too including 1/2 equity in house at time of sale) Lawyer had told me that I am being "way too nice". I'm not even asking for alimony. Then stbx said his sister wanted to know about his GF. As close as I thought I was to my in-laws, (they always considered me a sister rather than an in-law) Doesn't she know he was cheating on me? Hard to tell what she was told, but I won't call her to ask. After being in the family for 31 years, you'd think she would KNOW me better.
I feel so alone, so very alone. My chest is hurting and I know it is anxiety. I'm going to call someone later in the morning re: counseling.
I need a hug, I need a shoulder to cry on, I need prayers. I'm so afraid to be alone right now, however my cats are right next to me.
Please help me.
I feel so alone, so very alone. My chest is hurting and I know it is anxiety. I'm going to call someone later in the morning re: counseling.
I need a hug, I need a shoulder to cry on, I need prayers. I'm so afraid to be alone right now, however my cats are right next to me.
Please help me.
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I need a friend too. I'd love to give you a hug. I don't suppose you live anywhere near southern wisconsin? I have a cat too btw. I'm sorry you're going through all this too. You're a really lovable, kind person and you don't have to be alone in this. God loves you and there's always friends and DS and counselors.
Father,
I pray that you put your arms around journey and comfort her. Send people into her life to help her through this time. Please heal her anxiety and bring her a new hope. Be there for her and carry her through this. Amen.
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