
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Thought my husband was my best friend despite all our troubles. Infidelity was never one of them. Mostly our troubles were due to his addiction and the dishonesty about that. Never thought he would cheat. Not only did he cheat but I only know he did because his dad finally told me where he went after he had disappeared from my life for 5DAYS! It was torture and now I am in complete shock. When I discovered he was missing a million possiblities went thru my mind. This one did too, but I figured it just popped up from my paranoia because everyone else has cheated. He sent me a loving card thanking me for standing by him and believing in him on OCT 19. On weekend of OCT 27 he had this "HORRIBLE" "family crisis" involving his crazy mother and cancelled our plans to get together. The next weekend he cancelled saying he had to work overtime (not uncommon or suspicious) He was supposed to call me Saturday Nov 3 in between "helping a friend move" and working, but never did. He always called when he said he was going to. I have not talked to him since. On Wednesday his dad told me that not only did HE move (not his friend), but he moved several hours away, in with his slut x wife who is a meth head and may have Hepatitus C and is a slut that he supposedly found repulsive. Where did this come from and how did this happe? They have 2 children together. We have a 5 year old daughter together and he met my son when he was only 2 and has treated like his own child for 6 years. He has also deserted them without ONE WORD. My son cried, "Now I lost 2 dad's" I cannot bear their hurt which must be even worse than mine. How could someone who I thought loved me and the kids more than anyone do this?
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I have felt your shock. You and kids will be okay in time. Your husband and his ex pig wont.
Try to think about the pain he would have inflicted if he had stayed. You don't need someone who comes up missing for 5 days, can't be honest about his addiction and can't even now face up to you with what he's done.
He would have been a horrible example of a dad for your children. I'm hoping one day you will be thankful to have this man out of your life!