My stbx is in her own place and the papers have been filed. She left us because she did not want to be a mom or a wife. It is the second time she has left and I am finally ready to move on. Now she wants to be a mom and include herself in "family" activities. I am trying to be delicate but it seems she doesn't get it. I can't understand a person that could happily leave a family more than once and now desire no responsiblily but want inclusion. Am I an ass for telling her no. My time with my kids is for me and them. She made her choice. It seems just when the pain is starting to subside she begins to reintroduce herself and it begins again.
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