I feel so bad for her. She was telling me about how much my x has changed. She told me that he really was intelligent and smart but now he's not. Everything is "f" this and "f" that...just like the drug addict gf. And she told me that the gf spends money like you wouldn't believe and (said incredulously by my x mil) doesn't even work! I told her that my bf bought son's latest pair of shoes because after paying all the bills, I couldn't afford it. She was sickened and started crying. She asked when was the last time he had talked to the kids...I told her that it's been over 6 months. By this time she was sobbing. I told her that the kids are doing fine...my bf helps me take care of them. I really do need to bring them over there. Maybe I'll call her back and plan to go over there early next week....Monday or Tuesday. UGH. I just feel so bad for her and she's a really sweet woman. X has minimum contact with her because of her moral beliefs and he feels convicted when he's just in her presence (ok that part is my own belief...I really do think that he feels bad when he's around her because he knows his actions are wrong even if it's subconsciously).
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