I feel bad because my stbx is going through a really hard time at work. He is faced with having to fire a bunch people whom he thought were close friends. He found out that they were just using him to get into the positions that they have and since have frauded the company. He needs a shoulder to lean on, and I feel bad but can't do it. He lied and hid things from me in our marriage, I feel he used me to get where he is in life and now that he has his 2 children has thrown me aside. I know I still love this man, but I can't be there. I did corrilate his problems to our marriage and now he is feeling a little of what I have been feeling. Why does this make me sad???
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