WOW I think I must be doing very well. He called to see if ther was anything I wanted to talk about, so I said yes. I asked him if the was anyway we could sit down together and start writing out a separation agreement. Mostly to see if we can agree on custody and support spousal and child. I told him it would save alot of time in court and with lawyers. He said no! He want to do it all through court. I said ok then. I think he wants to stall as long as possible. After I said well I guess thats all I have to say then. Then he asked if I thought ther was anyway we could work things out. I was like u haven't paid any support in 6 months, haven't taken the kids for weekend visits in 3 months and been out partying for the last 8 months. I told him that I dont want to be with someone whos #1 priority is not his children and wife and thats it. I feel so strong and good about myself. That I'm ok with out him, I'm not running to him this time because he feels like it's convenient to wanna be with me. And for over 2 months I have been saying no every time he has asked me to have sex with him. I really thought this day would never come, giving myself a pat on my back for all the hard work LOL.
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