Oh man during my grueling custody battle my inlaws tried everything to take my kids from me. Then when I was hit by Katrina they said that was proof of my instability. That, because I was homeless and jobless due to a natural disaster it meant I was unstable. Of course I quickly got a place to live and got a job (in less than ten days from Katrina). I did well and was proud of that. They tried to say because I did not have a car I was unstable. (Yet the no car thing came because of my husband). Well I did the best I could and the judge was impressed. I have had legal custody of my kids for a year now. Now they are saying they are opening the custody battle again (well they are going to financially help my soon to be ex) because... get this... I am unfit because I have to leave my kids with a babysitter while they sleep so I can work!!!!! Why do they want to do this to my kids? Why won\'t they let it rest? It was explained to me that if the divorce is not final and he re-opens the custody battle it will only delay things. But he is pushing hard to finish the divorce. So I don\'t get it!!! I mean everytime I remind my husband that the child support is due he starts yelling about fighting for custody. Yes I keep journals and every email he has sent. Yes I have kept the ones I sent him as well so that it does not seem one sided. Well anyway, I believe the entire family is insane and I have plenty of proof. But why do they keep giving my kids the 3rd degree over everything. Like asking them if I am dating anyone or not?? I don\'t date and have not dated anyone in 2 years. Besides it was my husband that ran off with someone else and flaunted his relationship in front of my kids before I even knew about anything. UGGHHH sorry so long I had to get some stuff off my chest.