
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

Jlhorlando
is still coming to my house. (I got it in the settlement) I have asked him to change the bills and other business correspondence many many times. He did fill out a change of address at the post office, but He wasn't thorough enough. (he goes by both his first name and his middle name and he has 3 LLC's that still have my address) I still get a ton of mail. I feel like just throwing it in the trash, but I know some are important bills etc. I am trying so hard to move on and believe it or not, a stupid thing like seeing his name on the mail every day is getting me down. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?
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Here after 6 months, the forwarding stops because by then he should have contacted everyone and changed the address.
I have been forwarding, readdressing, things, but I am getting tired of it. I hve to forward them to the OW's house! He has had 7 months to change the address and at times I think he keeps one particular bit of mail coming just to get at me.
I am going to start writing "return to sender." Let them figure it out.
i know how it is. i get 'mrs.' on my mail. i still receive phone calls at the house for him too. people still ask me how he's doing when i see them out in public. i hate to even address the topic. it just makes them feel uncomfortable.
you could always call the post office yourself.
Talk to your Postie if you can...just smile and let hiim know..so he will expect to see a lot of these Not Living Here messages in the future.
speaking of mail... I opened up a letter addressed to the EX yesterday...glad I did.. I knew it was our medical cards, and I could feel the envelope...knowing that one card belongs to me..and wow.. got the surprise that I was not on his insurance plan....Whamooo... glad I opened the damn envelope.. lol