every chance he gets to be difficult he takes. since the break up, he's taken every opportunity to be horrible to me (all on text messages) the latest episode was last night. he sent me a text telling me my son needed socks, and daughter needed shoes (she had flip flops on and can't wear them to daycare) i was at work and asked what he'd like me to do about that i was now at work...then i said i'd drop them on his front steps later after i was done with work. he replied "don't bother i'll pick up in the morning don't forget". well to try n get his stupid power trip gone, i finished work, went home and my bf and i dropped the stuff off (it was like one in the morning and i just set the bag on his front steps) and i sent a message saying "stuff is on your steps :) " . about an hour later i get a message that says W C D. He likes to call me names using the first letter of the word. ?? I then replied that that was completely ineffective when i have no idea what that meant, and called him a moron. he then sends off a message saying to make it a contest whoever i can get to guess i'll buy them a drink since i'm such a bw (bar whore i'm assuming) i then say crack kills (because of something else...another long ass story). he then says to put a sign that says that on my back and i'd save lots of lives. my bf then steps in and begins replying. it was very funny because in every text my bf wrote, he called him fat (which he is but i'd never use that lol in fact i never retort back meanly because i'm always wanting to take the upper hand but my bf was getting so pissed off that he was doing this). i left my husband. i divorced him yes. i deserve to be happy. his letting EVERYTHING get taken from him from under his feet is NOT my fault. Why does he still after 2 years of being seperated, and one year of being divorced, feel the need to be so nasty and hurtful?? And why (the big question of the night my bf asked) do i let him get to me and care about him and his welfare?? if you got this far, thanks..just so frustrated
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