so its my daughters 18th today!!! my wife and her enabler friend are taking her to dinner tonite. a i was not invited and would not feel comfortable going anyway.i am sure it would be awkward. her enabler friend is some lady my wife works with and is like 40 and i really dont know her but the few times i'v met her she is kinda i dont know bitchy. she is single and has never been married but my wife seem to gravitate to her and i think this is where my wife gets all her great advice for our relationship.anyway... i have made plans with my daughter for a sandwich type picnic with my cousin and his wife and kids at the park it would be one thing if my wife would be cool and everything but with our current situation... i feel like this is my time with my daughter on her b-day and is her day!!!try to talk to my wife she makes it sound like my daughter does not want a pinic and will not go if she does not and i feel like she is manipulating my daughter and me. i dont want to make a big deal about it. and am not sure what to do??? do i let my wife go and risk her upsetting my daughter or do make a stand and not let my wife go....
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