My STBX has my children for a month until they go back to school. Its his half of the summer. Well, when they are with me I am the one that takes hands on care of them. When they are with him. He says that he "hired" a "nanny" to take care of them...thats what he said in court. But my daughter told me that this "nanny" calls her dad BABY and sleeps over every night. Hmmm. I never met this person before and have no clue who she is. I just hear what my girls come to me and say. Our divorce is set to be finalized on the 15th of August. He is trying everything in his will to get either full custody or shared. His whole objective is to NOT pay child support. His family and everyone knows that...but DOES THE JUDGE KNOW THIS? And when I ask him to meet the "Nanny" so I can know who is taking care of my kids, he says its none of my business and NO. Can he do this? Is there anything that I can do? I gave birth to those children, I have a right to know or have the number to who or where my children are. Thats what I feel. But he doesn't want me to know anything. Is there anything I can do in preparation for my court? I can't let my STBX and this woman take my children. And I need him to pay some support. Since the separation in January, we have not gotten one cent from him for childcare. My mother and his mother has been helping me stay afloat with daycare expenses and after school programs for THREE kids. Now he has them, he took them out of day care and stuck them with the "Nanny" who happens to be staying with him. He says he has receipts to show he is paying her. Well of course, when the money is coming right back into the house. He is so slick. He is running all over me. How do I gain control and how do I let him know I have rights as being a mother to those children?
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