She's 15 and going through what many of us have gone through. I'm so worried about her. She has been dating a boy for several months and their lives have pretty much revolved around each other...spending every moment that they can together and when they couldn't be together, they were on the phone. For over a week now she's been completely weepy about him...he keeps blowing her off...claiming to be sick so he can't come over...not meeting her after school like he usually does and then saying that he waited but had to go...there's always some excuse and she's cried for nearly every day since this started and I'm completely fed up. I told her NOT to call him, not to make herself too available for him and what does she do after HER FRIENDS tell her to call him??? She ignores MY advice and calls him and ends up feeling worse than she did to begin with (he was too tired to talk to her for longer than a few minutes). I just hate seeing her like this...it's breaking my heart. I wish she'd just break up with him rather than allow him to still tell her that he loves her and then act like an ass to her. Thank goodness the same friends who gave her bad advice invited her to sleep over so she can keep her mind off of him...and this friend lives out in the country where cell phones don't work so he won't be able to call her cell. All I could do was tell her that she was worth 10 of any boy she could ever bring around here and to never forget that and don't let anyone walk over her. I know that she's a teenager and she's bound to experience even more heartbreak in her life but it's so hard watching your baby go through stuff like this. Wish she had a daddy to put the fear of God into any boy who even dreams of hurting her....
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