I am new. I read a couple messages. Oddly most of them are from people who were victims. Unfortunately I am in a situation where my gf of 3 years left because I was the problem. I was the one she didn't trust. She didn't trust because she didn't feel security. She didn't feel security because I was not giving enough emotional support. 9 months ago we went to couples counseling -- 8 visits. I realized I had baggage that had to be dealt with from my youth. And it was blocking my ability to give of myself vs building walls. The rest of the time I have been going myself to work through it. And just as I feel I have broken huge barriers she left. To late. Now I am weak.... in search of what to do.
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