My husband and I have been broken up for almost a year. During this time he has spent NO time with our daughter. Has paid NO child support and is not consistant with phone contact,showing up when says, etc. His attorney contacted me last week about an interm parenting plan they are planning on filing in which stated he would have her two weekends a month. I have continued to try and help Shane be a father, have picked up the pieces when he doesnt show up when my beautiful daughter sits at the window waiting for him, bla bla bla. So once again I gave him the benifit of a doubt, went against everything I know is wrong and let him have her over night last Friday. Sense then my daughter has been withdrawn, and when I ask how the nite went she tells me she was scared and doesnt want to go back. What am I suppose to do? I think it is detramental to her being tossed to a staranger. Anyone have any advice?? Please help...