
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Anyone can be married and get divorced. But then comes the second marriage and divorce. What happens? Where is the breakdown of the marriage. Didn't we learn anything from the first marriage? What happened. What do we need to learn to NOT repeat this pattern again? Do we stop believing in the sanctity of marriage and the forever part of the vows? Or is it until we find something better or cannot put up with this any more? Synical? I'm not sure. I want to be a positive person. But after totally believing in two persons and thinking that one was my soul mate and best friend...what do you think? I feel less able to make a logical decision about romance and committment. I cannot trust myself, so how can I trust someone else? Just curious as to how everyone else feels about this.
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I think as long as you really look at why the marriage didn't work, what was your part in it, what do you need to work on, fix your 'picker-outer' if it needs fixing...then you are doing everything you can.
Maybe you can't trust yourself or someone else right now, but if you give yourself time, you will be able to again. I really believe that.
I DEFINITELY think that if the value,moral and belief system of both individuals involved is the SAME that just about anything can be overcome. Thats not to say though,that people dont or cant change. Thats where you throw the wrench in.
Also, I now realize that it will never work if both are not healthy,whole and complete within themselves,separate from the other. We should be an addition to that persons happiness, not the root of.
It can only get better from here..right? sooo many lessons learned.
And that is why I am now in therapy :P