New member to this group and struggling for answers. The divorce papers aren't filed yet and I still know I'm in love with my wife and wonder why she doesn't feel the same. She has some major work to do on herself and we are going to remain friends for our kids sake. I think they're doing better than I am with this. She asked for the divorce and I'm going to finish it. We both made mistakes in the past which she apparently wasn't able to leave there. I was never abusive or a cheat, I was an enabler ready to do everything for her instead of helping her do it herself. I know what I want out of life and want her to share that with me but she won't. She's already dating someone which isn't even a big deal to me. It's not like I haven't seen her with people in the past ( one of her problems) It's getting from saying what I know I have to do, to doing what I have to do. Moving on. But I don't want to. Thats where I need the help. I feel like a part of me has died and I want my family back!
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