So after 14 yrs of marriage/18 together my H cheated x 3 and decides he is done. During the last 6 months while he was supposedly working on clearing his FOG he betrayed our 12 year old daughters trust, had her meet one of his online friends and then told her to lie to me about it, and then very unemotionally told her about him divorcing me. So... we are in this town for his career. When H first left we discussed moving to be closer to family since I truly have no one here at all. Closest sort of family is 3 1/2 hours away. After he dropped the D bomb daughter and I decide to move to the next state(he agreed in writing already) to be near my family. I think that we both really need the support. Now my daughter is very upset at the thought of moving because she FINALLY has friends. It took her 5 years of being her to get accepted by people for who she is. I know most people will say, kids will make friends but for whatever reason my daughter does not have that luxury. The band director told her that wanted to offer her marching band lead for next year also. I am sick to my stomach thinking that I will be pulling her away from the only friends she has ever really had...what do I do? We were not planning on moving until the end of the school year. I am sick and stressed out thinking about hurting her like this..please any advice, I am burning a hole in my stomach.
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