Well, Now the head games are started to be played on me. After countless times of asking to go to mediation and finally being called an F@#$in idiot by her family for not getting a lawyer and getting this over, I finally hired a lawyer. The outcome, as advised by him we are proceeding to go after her professional license since it was obtained during the course of the marriage. Although during her school yrs I did work 2 jobs and at one point 3 to keep a roof over our heads, I still do feel bad. Now her games have began, family calling to talk me out of it, her crying about it, being nice to me, etc. I didn't ask for this! I tried! I wasn't the one who filed for divorce, I wasn't the one who walked out of counseling, I didn't stop seeing my therapist, i didn't refuse any form of reconciliation, I didn't refuse mediation. Should I feel this way? I now have a friend who now calls daily to make sure I am focused on my best interests rather than hers.
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