Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
DS has been my source of daily strenghth for me since my arrival.Today more than ever i am reaching out.
Last night my world changed in an instant.My wife let me know that she is pregnant as confirmed by a blood test through the DR.As some may know she has been having health issues with Low blood pressure as well as thickness(coagulation) of the blood which has already led to blood clots in the lung.She had let me know that the dr have advised her that carrying the baby to term would be high risk for her and the baby.The dr apparently advised she consider termination.She however has stated that this is not an option for her.She is willing to risk her life for our child.
Going forward i am a mess today.I am all over the map.Obviously i need confirmation-this has been a trying separation leading to divorce so i am questioning whether she is pregnant at all but my gut says she is.I don't believe she would lie about this.Assuming that is the case and the problems do persisit..i just don't know how or what to think.I am broken again today and i am hurting. :(
_Savery1
Last night my world changed in an instant.My wife let me know that she is pregnant as confirmed by a blood test through the DR.As some may know she has been having health issues with Low blood pressure as well as thickness(coagulation) of the blood which has already led to blood clots in the lung.She had let me know that the dr have advised her that carrying the baby to term would be high risk for her and the baby.The dr apparently advised she consider termination.She however has stated that this is not an option for her.She is willing to risk her life for our child.
Going forward i am a mess today.I am all over the map.Obviously i need confirmation-this has been a trying separation leading to divorce so i am questioning whether she is pregnant at all but my gut says she is.I don't believe she would lie about this.Assuming that is the case and the problems do persisit..i just don't know how or what to think.I am broken again today and i am hurting. :(
_Savery1
-
I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I am so sorry that you are so confused, not a nice place to be in i know.
is having a child together been something you wanted all along? or was it not really talked about?
I would like to think that a woman would not lie about being pregnant but i know some people do.
Is she now wanting to get back together or stay separated regardless of the child?
I would try to be there for as many of the appts as you can tho, even thop she says dont. Its important in the bonding process with your child.
Congratulations by the way! (now i know your happy about it i can say that! lol!)
I can understand your feelings but only she can make this decision, no matter how hard that is for you.
my thoughts are with you all as it is bound to affect the whole family. xxx
what I can tell you is the reason I came to DS is because I have a blood clot too... and it can kill me.
If your wife has a DVT.. a Deep Vein Thrombosis that is a very serious thing.. and in her lung.. very dangerous. It can kill her. This is something she has to consider. A pregnancy can kill her and the unborn child.
please be well, know that I am praying for you and her.