we've been together since i was 16 and he was 19. always appeared the perfect couple. 2 girls 5 and 7. he spoils them and me equally but doesn't know me, or listens to me. never fights. always wants everything to appear perfect. i wanted another baby, he wanted a big exp car...i told him we couldn't afford both, we got the car. he's obsessed with cleaning and working and buying things..with no consideration to the fact that it isn't what i want. i've told him over and over...same fight year after year. finally i withheld sex for 2 months and he wanted to know what was wrong. i told him i am tired and can't do it anymore. he completely agreed to a divorce..easy as pie. but says he loves me and wants it to work, same as every other fight. i don't know what to do.
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