Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
What if you agreed to meet someone, to find out if there was any chemistry after spending many many hours talking online, iming and on the phone and when the time finally comes, the sparks are flying, the kissing ensues and the intimacy follows...all in all a fantastic beginning.
Then, the next morning, he tells you the feeling is just not there? Oh yea, and in the course of intimacy, calls you another woman's name?
I know I should be mad as hell and kick this man's ass to the curb, so why can't I? Why do I continue to allow him room in my head?
Then, the next morning, he tells you the feeling is just not there? Oh yea, and in the course of intimacy, calls you another woman's name?
I know I should be mad as hell and kick this man's ass to the curb, so why can't I? Why do I continue to allow him room in my head?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Navel talk for what a F@#king jerk, he should be shot.
It sounds more like a rape, without the violence, if you ask me. He decieved you and used your vulnrablity to get what he wanted, not caring what you thought or felt. I say register his e-mail address with a gay porn site - Ahh sweet revenge - lol.
The more I think about it the more it makes me angry, I hate people that take advantage of others, there are too many in this world that do.
I hope you have a good day and let him go, he doesn't deserve to have any power over you any more.
I know, generalizations are not fair and not all men are this way but...
Can you hear "TRUST ME" and believe it after reading this?
But to paraphrase the golden rule, "Treat EVERYONE and I mean EVERYONE with respect as you want to be treated" is so much a part of me. As guys go I know I'm unusually empathetic, I hurt when I see others hurting and it is a strong motivator when it comes to respecting others. I believe if we all put ourselves in the shoes of others more often there would be so much less violence and pain in this world.
But Im just a cog in the wheel of life, I can only do my best with the people I can influence and that are a part of my life.
So I guess Im saying dont hold this jerks actions against all of us guys, but heed what happened and be cautious, for there are too many like him. Wait until you trust the other person more and, are more serious. I understand the loneliness, I miss the cuddling, and yes the sex, but I have to do right by both myself and the other person and be patient.