Why does it seem like my husband is sending mixed messages. He says things like "you should get on with your life, get over it, and get a divorce". Then he says things like I hope one day I can forgive myself and you can forgive me. He is the one that wants the divorce, and yet he has not tracked down any of the info (military stuff) that we need. Sometimes I think he is going to change his mind, and other times I think he can't wait to move on with his life and be with the OW.Should I just get on with it and push him to get the answers I need or get them myself? I don't want to push him too hard, because right now he is paying for everything and I don't want to lose that. I don't want this divorce, but I know he is not coming home. Maybe if we just got on with this I could get on with my life. What do I do.
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