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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Why is it that the fact that the Break up is not hard enough for STBX's why do they insist on playing mind games .
My stbx called me. I returned her call she said she was about to get in the shower and she would call me when she got out. That was at 4 pm it's now almost 8pm. She probably thinks I am waiting by the phone for her call. I'm not.
This is the type of insensitive mind game that would plauge our relationship. i would send her an email and it would take her days to respond if she did at all.
I realized that this is a game I let her play, I'm not doing this anymore.
Don't get mad at the dumb, insensitive, mind games these people play. Use it a fuel to remember why you are leaving.
People can only give you what you are willing to accept. I definitley don't want this.
Anyone agree?
My stbx called me. I returned her call she said she was about to get in the shower and she would call me when she got out. That was at 4 pm it's now almost 8pm. She probably thinks I am waiting by the phone for her call. I'm not.
This is the type of insensitive mind game that would plauge our relationship. i would send her an email and it would take her days to respond if she did at all.
I realized that this is a game I let her play, I'm not doing this anymore.
Don't get mad at the dumb, insensitive, mind games these people play. Use it a fuel to remember why you are leaving.
People can only give you what you are willing to accept. I definitley don't want this.
Anyone agree?
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exactly as you said, use them as reminders.
I have been so well trained (22-years) that my only way was to move far away.
Some people just love the Control. They miss it after they leave-so they start pulling strings that they Know will work. They can't help it anymore than we can't help Waiting, or Doing whatever behavior they are looking for.
It is a sick dance.