Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Why is it that the fact that the Break up is not hard enough for STBX's why do they insist on playing mind games .
My stbx called me. I returned her call she said she was about to get in the shower and she would call me when she got out. That was at 4 pm it's now almost 8pm. She probably thinks I am waiting by the phone for her call. I'm not.
This is the type of insensitive mind game that would plauge our relationship. i would send her an email and it would take her days to respond if she did at all.
I realized that this is a game I let her play, I'm not doing this anymore.
Don't get mad at the dumb, insensitive, mind games these people play. Use it a fuel to remember why you are leaving.
People can only give you what you are willing to accept. I definitley don't want this.
Anyone agree?
My stbx called me. I returned her call she said she was about to get in the shower and she would call me when she got out. That was at 4 pm it's now almost 8pm. She probably thinks I am waiting by the phone for her call. I'm not.
This is the type of insensitive mind game that would plauge our relationship. i would send her an email and it would take her days to respond if she did at all.
I realized that this is a game I let her play, I'm not doing this anymore.
Don't get mad at the dumb, insensitive, mind games these people play. Use it a fuel to remember why you are leaving.
People can only give you what you are willing to accept. I definitley don't want this.
Anyone agree?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
exactly as you said, use them as reminders.
I have been so well trained (22-years) that my only way was to move far away.
Some people just love the Control. They miss it after they leave-so they start pulling strings that they Know will work. They can't help it anymore than we can't help Waiting, or Doing whatever behavior they are looking for.
It is a sick dance.