My husband is playing such mind games with me. He has OW moved in but still says he loves me and misses me. Today he called me and at the end of the short conversation he called me by the nickname he use to call me when we were first dating. It tore on my heart. Then when he e-mailed me later he used it again. He hasn't called me that in years. Tonight when he called he said he can't wait to see me on Friday when I meet him to give him the kids. When that conversation ended he said I don't want to mess you up by this, but I love you and I always will. Why does he do this. I believe he still does love me, but cannot leave OW. I ask myself what her hold on him is. Why would he tell me these things if he didn't feel them? How did I learn to not let these things hurt me?
Posts You May Be Interested In
I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...