I have been married 9 years next week and for the last couple of years he has not been the same person. Last year he said he was suffering from depression and got on medicine which did not help. He only tried two different ones before coming off and during this time he moved out for the first time. He told me he was moving with a cousin but instead moved in with another women. Came home after telling me the truth and seven weeks. Things seem to be going good until I found out the he was still talking to the OW which he said was nothing they were just friends. This went on for a while and six weeks ago he moved out again this time he is staying with a Aunt. He said he was tried of me not being happy and that he is just an ass and is not sure he is willing or able to change. Says I have done nothing wrong. He says he still loves me. Since he has been gone he has started talking and mainly texting two new women sometimes 60 texts back and forth. My questions is I still love him and would take him back if things could be different. So are his actions midlife crisis or is he just a lier and cheat. I wonder also about depression. He says nothing makes him happy. Do I wait it out or file for divorce.
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