My fiance and I broke up a few months ago- in October- well no he tells me in anger that he "dumped" me in August. We were living together and engaged. The problem is that we were both coming out over very very and very costly and messy divorces. We supported each other through this. But, I don't think either of us ever fully healed. And..in my opinion the relationship- although sometimes wonderful- at it's bad points- I swear to you he was my ex and I was his. Since I moved out things have become increasingly worse. I genuinely love this man. But, I think we need to totally separate and figure out what we as individuals want.....and if we want each other. Am I crazy? He wants to keep in contact and I feel like it's inappropriate but I care for him so I leave that window open......I don't know. Over the last 6 months we have pretty much demolished the relationship- should I just let go?? Feedback!!
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