wanted to get some opinions? I have been on here before so hopefully I don\'t repeat myself. was married for 30 yrs, had a brain tumor, lost our home due to couldn\'t work anymore, wife grew distant, my 30 year old son moved back whom she loves more than life itself and puts him over her own husband, I was not allowed to sleep in our own kingsize bed anymore, if my son was home I had to sleep on the downstairs floor of our 3 stoty townhouse apt. if he wasn\'t home I could sleep in his bed, she said this was due to my snoring, but it went much deeper than that, I told my wife one day I love you as I did alot but she would not say it back? I asked her why and she said I still have feelings for you, I was left home late at night as her and her son would take long walks together at night and leave me alone and not tell me she had left, I was told one night by my son it was time for me to go to bed, it was around 8:00, I told him he could not treat me that way, then he Physcially threatened me while she stood by and did nothing to stop him, I decided to leave that night when everyone was asleep because I feared for my life, I did not think about anything but being safe, at the time the only income was my disability as my wife had not worked in several years, I did not think about the money or anything, I feared for my life, and now I realized my wife was not there for me anymore, now she is suing me for my only income my disability, I have had to get a lawyer and pay several hundereds of dollars to attain a lawyer, all I wanted was to be safe and happy, I now have my own place again which I pray my son doesn\'t find out where I live, he was in the Marines and feel he is very tough and likes to show everyone that, next week I have to go to court for a hearing and a trial the next month, need some encouragement and advice, I am a christian, it has been a tough several years and I know I ask God why? Alot, I know that I will never know why till maybe when this life is over. Rich
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