i was just reading a thread and i think a lot of you read it. It reminded me of what i learned bout myself in therepy. I ask the ex a question about where the money was going and the response is your making me feel guilty you don't trust me you don't love me. i believed that so i didn't ask again it seemed to hurt her and i loved her. But what i learned was a normal response would be lets talk about it and figure out what we want to do together. i asked the ex did you use me answer i got was that hurt how can you say that i loved you and you didn't see i'm not that kind of person. normal response yes or no. i ask the question can i get some of the money back that you took response why should i give it back you gave it out of love a man of God wouldn't ask for it back you knew i was using the money to make a better life for me and my children. i don't know what a normal response to that is cuz i got threatened with a restraining order. and my therepist said go look at question one and the answer i got then look at question 2 and the answer i got and look at question 3 and the answer i got. i guess number three shows what kind of person she really is.
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