Some of you know my deal, addict- cheated on wife like n asshole and trying to get clean. She texted me this morning asking to come to the house to get some of her stuff - she's staying at her parents right now so I texted back and said what time and i will leave so you can get what you need. I thought that was the considerate thing to do, she got mad that i wasnt going to stay. Was that really that wrong of me to say id leave? I just think it would be ha rder on both of us if i was there. I dont want to see her taking her stuff away and it honestly would be hard to see her and not be able to touch her at all. I think she thinks she can handle it fine maybe she can but she goes from wanting to see me to wanting to punch me not that she woul but shes pretty mad at me. In a way i wntt to do whatever would make her happy but then logic takes over and i think no thats not a good idea. Cant decide if me choosing to leave is really a good idea like i think ot if she sees it as rejection and im making it worse. I'm baffled honestly donthave a clue.
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