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Ok, I gotta go lay down. I Just got a notice of a "Preliminary Conference" for Matrimonial Part 12 which is Section 202.16
I didn't think we needed to go to court... all I Hear is KaChing KaChing KaChing. I'm told I'm paying more than I should be paying to the family, but it's surely not $350 an HOUR!
I need to call my lawyer later, but I need nap first. My MS doesn't respond well to legal proceedings. Before I Knew I had MS, 2 house closings left me so messed up I couldn't understand why. I recover easily enough, but still... when I opened the letter it was like someone punched me in the stomach and hit me upside the head at the same time.
The page I googled said the judge may even personally talk to us. Maybe my uncontrolled reactions to authority figures will be beneficial for my case, I don't know, I just made so much progress in health this year, I hope Tuesday doesn't take it all back.
I gotta find out if this is in my favor or not. My lawyer may be forcing this action, her lawyers may not have responded to paperwork requests. I don't know.
I'm wondering if I should ask the stbx, or not.
I didn't think we needed to go to court... all I Hear is KaChing KaChing KaChing. I'm told I'm paying more than I should be paying to the family, but it's surely not $350 an HOUR!
I need to call my lawyer later, but I need nap first. My MS doesn't respond well to legal proceedings. Before I Knew I had MS, 2 house closings left me so messed up I couldn't understand why. I recover easily enough, but still... when I opened the letter it was like someone punched me in the stomach and hit me upside the head at the same time.
The page I googled said the judge may even personally talk to us. Maybe my uncontrolled reactions to authority figures will be beneficial for my case, I don't know, I just made so much progress in health this year, I hope Tuesday doesn't take it all back.
I gotta find out if this is in my favor or not. My lawyer may be forcing this action, her lawyers may not have responded to paperwork requests. I don't know.
I'm wondering if I should ask the stbx, or not.
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When nobody is interested, aloneness is the only path available. Online if you don't look like, or are, a celebrity or model, forget it. Time passes but nothing changes.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I just want to know why this court appearance was asked for, is it standard procedure 'moving forward', are we that far along; Or is there a problem?
I'll call my lawyer later, but advise here is free, phone calls to them are $$$$/hour
Was told to email/call my stbx and ask her, and to ask her lawyer, to show up before 9 instead of 9:30 and we may get out sooner.
She said it could take up to 3 hours there, but the actual meeting with the judge should only be 15 minutes or so and I don't have to say a word.
We may just need to go back one more time, if all is ready, in two months. Otherwise it may require a 3rd time. I'm hoping next time is it. That would be on my timetable just fine and be one of the dates I said my decree would be on, hmmm... actually, the FIRST one I said.
I wrote about it in my journal. But it doesn't matter. LOL.
Learn something new every day. Or a whole buncha things at once to make up for the slow periods. This was one of 'em.