Okay ..i know that there is the age old problem of men complaining that there wife loses interest in sex for some reason or another and it causes huge problems..infidelity....divorce...etc... but i never hear of it being the other way around. For my entire marriage (nearly 12 years) mom husband had sex with me once a month..and if i suggested it in between he would say " well you ruined it..i was just about to be in the mood...but now it will be another month" it was degrading..abusive...and he never gave me any reasons. i became so afraid to ask or try to persuade him...i gave up. Now don't get me wrong...i was 21 when i got married ..in terrific shape...and dated regularly until i met my husband....i always stayed thin ..get hit on nearly every time i leave the house...always made sure i fit the part of a wife in his career world....looked my best at all times....I am not saying i am a beauty queen..by all means. its hard for me to even consider myself attractive he has knocked me down so low. i can't help but think if my own husband didn't want me..why would anyone else? has anyone experienced anything like this?
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