After thinking about it for a while, I would like to try and fix the marriage. By STBX does not want to, she is convinced, as I am, that it is a loveless marriage where we really have nothing in common, nothing to stay together for (except the daughter and material possesions we have built together). There is no infidelity, no abuse nothing as serious as some of the situations I have found on DS, just emotional and physical isolation. My head says go forward with the divorce (the petition will be filed by STBX this week) but my gut says: I'd rather try to fix it than quit. We have been through conseling (twice) with short term minor improvements. So, I clicked on a couple of the ads to the left for Marriage-Max and Stop_divorce_now. com. Sounds like a scam to me, $50 for worthless advice. That's my head, my gut would like to try! Has anybody ever actually tried these alternative 'marriage saving' techniques? Should I just get over my gut feelings and do what seems right in my head?
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