I have been with my husband for almost 3 years. We have been everything to each other. We have had some really bad times...I lost my father 2 years ago and he was there for me through it all. On christmas eve, i found pictures on his phone of a tattoo. The tattoo was on a girls side and looked like she was undressed. I got really upset and said alot of things mean and didn't let him explain and kicked him out. I know i shouldn't have jumped so quickly to doing that...but i was really hurt. He had been gone for two weeks for work...sometimes when i would call him he was too busy to talk. Which of course that's definetly possible. Its been a month now since i kicked him out and i realized i made a big mistake. I feel that it was innocent...he says he just liked the tattoo. Now he doesn't know if he wants to work things out. He came over 3 days after that to give me my christmas presents and he was so upset and crying and i told him that i wanted him to come back home and that i was sorry and that i made a mistake...but he's still holding his ground. I do love him and I want to work this out. He's harping on the fact that i threw him out and about the fact that i didn't trust him. It seems that no matter what i say, its not good enough for him. He gets mad at me when i try to talk to him about what's going on....i know he loves me, but he's being really difficult to understand right now. I need some help!! I don't know what else to do
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