
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Hi, im new to this site, and dont really know what im doing, and if this is in the wrong spot, please forgive me....a cpl days ago my husband and I got into an argument that blew up into something bigger than it should have. Well, after that argument, he told me he wanted a seperation, he called his mom, packed a bunch of his stuff and left. I love my husband so very much and want him back home. I sent him a message on his phone asking if he wants to try marriage counceling, but the only response was "I need to think about things" What can I do to get him to see I dont want him to give up on us???
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Unfortunately you can't get him to "see" anything. If he already has it in his mind. All you can do it tell him how you feel about things and if he chooses to go to counseling then great and if he doesn't you should go to work on yourself to be a better person no matter what. Take care!
Basically it's out of your control, he has to decide whether he's interested in continuing or not. Then you can negotiate the rest.
Good luck :)