I was wondering if there was anyone out there who went through a rough patch (3-4 years) with their spouse, wanted to leave, get separated, etc. and after trying to work things out ended up staying together and being happy? I want to know if that's possible! My husband and I have been married 19 years, 3 kids. He'd been unhappy off and on for years with our marriage and stayed because mostly because he's afraid to leave, but didn't tell me until I said I was unhappy last year (after 3 years of asking what was wrong and hearing that everything was fine). He wasn't really attracted to me and I wasn't a lot of fun, apparently. Well, now I've lost weight and gotten my stuff together and he's interested in me again,especially now that I'm pushing him away, but he's hurt me so much that I don't know how much I can give anymore. I'm trying to save things, I am, but I can't keep it up forever. Has anyone worked things out?
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