HUH?

HUH?

I think what she means is that we cannot let them see what they have done to us,, if they only see our happy side,, they will wish like hell they had stayed, because they have become miserable! Am I right?

I sure hope you're right. It would warm the cockles of my heart to see my no-good cheating ex suffer for his deeds!!! LOL!!!

hmm... she did see me more often while I was "looking miserable", once I started feeling better and happy to be on my own, we chatted less and less.

I agree 100%. I was told the best revenge was to lose 10 pounds. I lost 22. The next time he saw me I looked fab. On top of it he moved out of state. I have no family here and no one that I really call my friends. So, I'm all alone here. After years of working temp jobs I got the break I needed. It paids me enough to pay my own rent and bills. It hurts him like hell because there is really no obvious need for him here.

Thanks for everyones replies and yes what I'am saying is don't like them see you hurt everytime you all run into each other make him sorry he or she left! Cindy

When I run into mine I make sure I look great and have smile on my face like I don't have a care in the world. I have also lost 20lbs and it is great. I also notice when I act like that he gets confused like he does not know how to handle this I should be crying. Don't let them see you suffer it kills them to think you don't need them anymore.

Do you really think they give a shit how we feel or look? I dont think so, because they left. They dont care. If they cared why would they leave.

I'm with Jungle Joe, mine couldn't care less one way or the other. Actually I don't think he cares how anyone feels but himself. Doubt he'll change, and doubt he'll ever know what he's missing. Caring often hurts, but not caring is inhuman.

I don't think she cares either because she currently has the upper hand: the kids, the house, $2600 a month maintenance (65% of my salary), happy pills, a boyfriend, etc

Well for one thing anyone that has a attitude like they left me because I'am a nobody is crazy people are all different and the one's that leave most of the time have some sort of a issue within them self don't ever let that have you thinking low of yourself please when they see what they left yes they will give a shit' But if you look like shit when they leave no they won't want to come back to that forget them and move on but let them see what they lost maybe they did'nt see it at first!!!!! Cindy

Yah Men and Women make that person who left you regret it men workout eat healthy and dress nice and always smell good women love that..And Ladies workout get fit eat good healthy food and drink plenty of water be foxy, sexy, and feel good about yourself dress to empress get you another man stay looking and smelling good.. Peace out my friends!