Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I feel like the lowest of low right now. I am trying to figure out what is wrong with me. The only thing I can figure out is that I don't like myself so much that I attract losers because it makes me feel better about myself or something. I feel like everything is wrong in my life and I have absolutely no clue how to fix me. This breakup is killing me inside even though if I am honest with myself this is a very very good thing. How will I ever find someone who will love me and accept me the way I am if I don't love and accept myself the way I am?
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I am new here and just needed to find support from people that know what I am going through. My husband up and left me 2 weeks ago, I was blindsided by him and he wants a divorce. I had no idea that we were even unhappy. He took me to wirk ine morning like he always does, gave me a kiss and said he loved me. I went to work he came back before my shift was over and handed me the keys to my car and...
It may take awhile, but they will be a better partner, and it will be worth it.
That is what I telling myself. Don't settle.
The only person whom you have to worry about loving and accepting is yourself.
How to do that, I think everyone will probably have a different answer. Personally, I had to look within, answer some pretty hard questions about who and what I am.
We often don't see ourselves in the same light as our friends, our families. Ask for their input. We all have qualities that are good, we all have faults that simply make us human. We are our own worst critics and we are often harder on ourselves than what we would be with a friend, a family member.
I know after 20 months of separation, I love myself a lot more than I did at the start.
It's a tough ride but you will get there.
Good Luck, God Bless.
Life is full of triumphs and failures of some kind or another. Stop and think a minute, how many times did you fall when trying to learn to walk? Did you stop trying to walk or are you able to walk and run today?
Realize that you are special and unique, because there is no-one else just like you. Focus on your positives and as the old saying goes "fess up the mess up" and go on with your life. For years, I was told I would never amount to anything, never have anyone love me, etc. I have been married now for almost 35 years. Read my profile and "My Story" in my journal..Hopefully you can get some insight and encouragement from where I have been and what issues I have overcome. I wish you much happiness in the future and you can make it,
you will be amazed at how you will come to look at this all as a blessing with time.
...know this with all your heart: there is pleanty of fish out there! lots of good ones looking for someone! just hang in there and do your very best!!
many blessings to you sweetie!
"Revelation" Third Day
My life has led me down the road that's so uncertain
Now I am left alone and I am broken
Trying to find my way
Trying to find the faith that's gone
This time I know that you are holding all the answers
I'm tired of losing hope and taking chances
On roads that never seem
To be the ones that bring me home
Give me a revelation
Show me what to do
'Cause I've been trying to find my way
I haven't got a clue
Tell me should I stay here
Or do I need to move
Give me a revelation
I've got nothing without you
I've got nothing without you
My life has led me down this path that's ever winding
Through every twist and turn, I'm always finding
That I am lost again
Tell me when this road will ever end
I don't know where I can turn
Tell me, when will I learn
Won't you show me where I need to go
Let me follow your lead
I know that it's the only way that I can get back home