I was talking to my brother yesterday. He married his high school sweetheart when he was 16. After 24 yrs of marriage, she tells him she don't want to be married anymore and leaves. He said that he hurt so deeply, just like us. Said he thought he was gonna die,from the pain of the broken heart and love for her. I KNOW to well, that feeling. I asked him, when did that horrible pain go away. His answer was simple. "When I met someone else". He wasn't looking for anyone. That gave me something to really think about. So are we hurting because we love the person so much or is the pain because we lost someone we loved and we are alone? I may be more complicated than that. I think I hurt mostly because I loved him so much and he obviously don't return my love. All I know is I want this pain to leave me. To help speed the process, I am going to be open to LOOK for someone to HELP me overcome this pain. Any wonderful single men here in their 40s or 50s from NC? lol Love to you all :)
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